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What to Expect - Seven Month Old Baby Violet...!!!

Hey Y'all,  So I know this is super late as well. But I'll post some pictures from August. The little stinker just turned eight months old just a few days ago. I'm sorry I haven't been posting as much. I was doing such a good job keeping up with my blog. But we moved to the new house, Violet learned to crawl and its hard to find time now to keep up with the blog when Violet wants to be a part of everything I am doing. 

Living in the Middle of Nowhere...!!!

Hey Y'all, So I really hate living where I currently live. I live in the fucking middle of nowhere where there are literal cows in my fucking back yard. Our closest neighbor is far enough away that if someone tried to break into our home, they wouldn't be able to see them doing so. The funny thing is that we haven't even lived at the house in the middle fucking nowhere anymore. We moved when are lease was up at the end of May, beginning of June. But whenever I think to all the years I had to spend living there are not some of my most cherish memories but I can't say its a bad thing. While living in that house I started dating the most amazing guy I could ever ask to call my own. I also brought my daughter home to that house shortly after she was born in the hospital. I got my new full time job living in that house. So although there has been a lot of bad that has come from that house, there is some good to to balance out the bad. Of course the reason I hate living...

Designer Bags - Worth the Price...!!!

Hey Y'all, I was reading some other blogs this morning about purchasing designer bags and how much these woman were willing to spend a month or year on purses. I was shock to see that some were willing to spend hundreds even thousands on a few designer purses. A lot say that $200 a year on purses is a fair price. I was thinking about this. I don't think I could ever justify spending that much on money on purses. I cringe when I look at purses that cost more than $60. I also don't make the kind of money that would allow me to spend that much money on a purse. I have however looked online at a few different stores to see whats available when it comes to designer purses. While doing this I admired a lot of different types of purses and a few of them I really liked. I feel like though if I'd bought myself a designer purse, I'd never leave the house with it.  The only reason I say that is because the designer bags are not the most affordable and I wouldn't want s...

Writing on Wednesday - Judge...!!!

Hey Y'all, "Why do people judge people based on the things they wear or the way they look." the young girl asked her mother.  Her mother looked at her daughter and gave a weak smile.  "People just judge other people. They might be jealous or just mean. " she sighed with a sad smile.  "That's not right, Mamma." the young girl said.  "Yes, your right." the mother said to her daughter.  The young girl thought about it. She didn't like that people would judge someone. It didn't make any sense. It was wrong. That was what struck her most. The world would be a much better place if people didn't judge others.  I wrote this a while ago when I was thinking about the way people judges others. I think that as people we all see something on a day to day basis that makes us think not so pleasant things about others. I know its wrong. I'm sure we all know its wrong as humans but none of us are perfect. As h...

What to Expect - Six Month Old Baby Violet...!!!

Hey Y'all, So I know its super late but Violet turned six months old. Of course by the time you'll see this she will have already turned eight months old. I'm going to post some pictures of her back from July. I hope everyone enjoys them. 

Common Ground...!!!

Hey Y'all, I have been so busy in my life. I recently became a mother in January and started a new job at the end of February. A lot things are happening in my life and its crazy. I live in a world that is continuously changing around me. I can't stop it and I certainly can't change what is happening out in the world. The only thing I can do is control the way I react to these things. One of those things that have changed is becoming a mother. I recently became a mom. It is a rewarding role and one I wouldn't change for the world. I love my daughter, Violet so much. She just recently started to smile at me more and every time I get her to smile. I experience the most amazing feeling of pride, joy, and love. She is such an amazing little gift that I have been blessed. I couldn't be happier.  I also got a new job at a calling center. I'm super exited to start my new life in a new career. I think I will do really well at my job after I get out of my traini...

Steps to Being Debt Free...!!!

Hey Y'all, For a while now I have been trying to get my life back on track financially. I've been doing just that but it hasn't been easy in any means.  I'm also not any closer to calling myself debt free. But I have learned a few things since I made so mistakes so long ago. I'm gonna throw some tips on here to hopefully help others not make my mistakes. 1. Pay on Your Debt - So the first thing that always helps pay off debt is to pay it off as soon as you can. Pay it off the best you can, as soon as you can. I usually make payments as I spend. I think you should never spend more than you can afford to pay back right away. It's the best way you can assure that you don't go into debt. 2. Stop Using Credit Cards - I know, I know. This contradicts what it says above. If you can, cut up your credit cards, close your accounts, and start to pay them off. It's much better for you to close your accounts than to have someone else close them for you. ...